Mind over body, indeed it is!

I have a friend who just gave birth to a baby girl weighing at 4.412kg, the heaviest Asian baby in the hospital’s history.  You might think.:"What is so special about it, there are baby who are larger, the baby is just bigger than usual, thats all”,  The amazing thing is, the process was done all natural, no induction medicine , no pain-killer,  no epidural, just plain natural, the way nature intended it to be, and to top that, there was also no screaming, no shouting. Now, isn’t that special?

How can it be, that is not what most of us know about in regards to delivering a baby. should there be pain? shouldn’t there be pain-killer to ease the pain? shouldn’t medication be used to help speed up the process, which we all are familiar about?  

Why, because she believed this can be done, and she has a supporting husband who share the same belief.

I don’t know whether anyone of you guys/gals out there watched any documentary about mammals delivering their baby, there are also no screaming, they don’t have pain-killer, no epidural, don’t even have mid-wife, and the baby arrived into this world without any complication, or at least rarely.

If there is God, God is unfair in this aspect, why are other mammals mother enjoying this easy baby delivery process and not us, the human, the supreme life form, the peoples who worship God.  or maybe it is our own freewill that is causing this pain.

I’m my training in NLP and Hypnosis, our Mind does a lot of wonderful and sometime not so wonderful things for us. it amplified our pleasure so we have greater joy and feel more challenged to pursue our goal. sadly, the reverse is also true, our fear can also be growing exponentially and causes us to be stuck in a situation.

So it is not what happened around you that causes your enjoyment or suffering, it is how you perceived the situation to be, its your perception that is doing the trick, tricking you to take actions, or not to.

Remember, if you allow your mind to change the perception of your life, life will never be the same again! and of cause, this works both way as well. just like what Napoleon Hill said: “Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve!”

Habit and belief

Hi,

Everybody learn something every day.  It range from “oh, this bus don’t stop at certain place!” to having some insight about what happened in life , and to realize they can be better than who they are, what they are.

And when you are asked 1+1 = ? , you answer are usually 2, have anybody question why it is 2 and not 4?

You see, we learned some of the things we knew consciously, conscious about acquiring knowledge, skills on how to adapt to the environment,  learn to use and create tools to save time and energy…..

Some of the things we learned,  we learned them unconsciously,  when you are warm, you go into shades, we learned how to balance on a bicycle without really paying attention on how to do it.  That is true for skill such as walking, swimming, running etc.

And some of the thing we learned it just by complying, just like the answer of 1+1. ‘B’ is after ‘A’ and ‘C’ is after ‘B’, and ‘an’ is before any word starting with A,E,I,O,U instead of ‘a’.  This  usually happened when you are learning new things which you have no prior knowledge of.  That is why children learn the fastest, cause they only take in, not like adults whom needs to make sense out of everything.

There is a saying “Awareness if the first step to change”.  That is why if you are aware of the problem, the chances of resolving the problem are higher.

But how about those things, habits, belief, behaviors that you have which are not helping you in achieving what you want to achieve, be who you want to be?

Everything we knew, are learned,  and what we learned forms our believes,  and believes influent out behaviors, which in turn causes us to take those action we took, do those things we did.

If you perform a task so many times,  it will become a habit.  And habit is difficult to kick as most people knows.

One way to change your habit is through repetition or what I can conditioning.  If you replace the action of your habit with something else, and you and do it enough times, then the new action will become your new habit. According to studies, 21 times consecutively, for example, if you start to change your hand to brush your teeth in the morning,  after 21 days, you will be so use to brushing teeth this way.  Of cause this way has it disadvantage, the short coming of this approach is, not many people are persist until the new habit are formed.

So is there any other way, you ask. Of cause there is.

Do you still remember our belief causes our action? So if you want to remove a habit, you have to make sure the understanding/information that you have that causes the belief to be formed are changed,  if you come across a fact that one of the substance in your favorite drink are poisonous. Will the drink still be your favorite drinks?

And how do we do that?

We can do this by talking to our subconscious, where we store our memory, our believes, habits and our emotions. By influencing our subconscious, habit will start not to make sense, and it will cause us to perform difference actions which will eventually make the habit irrelevant, thus make the old habit not appropriate to perform any more.

Being a science in dealing with your mind, particularly effective in your subconscious, this make Hypnosis one of the most effective way to achieve what your goal, either you work with a hypnotherapist in a therapy session or work with yourself in self-hypnosis.

Because of the wonderful effectiveness Hypnosis has , it has been mystified by movies, TV and other media and the public to a level that most people are fear of it. Fearing they will be controlled, which is not the case.

Talk to any Hypnotist or Hypnotherapist and you will realise it is safe and effective.

Oliver Tan

Certified Hypnotherapist.

Certified 7th Path Teacher.

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