I have a friend who just gave birth to a baby girl weighing at 4.412kg, the heaviest Asian baby in the hospital’s history. You might think.:"What is so special about it, there are baby who are larger, the baby is just bigger than usual, thats all”, The amazing thing is, the process was done all natural, no induction medicine , no pain-killer, no epidural, just plain natural, the way nature intended it to be, and to top that, there was also no screaming, no shouting. Now, isn’t that special?
How can it be, that is not what most of us know about in regards to delivering a baby. should there be pain? shouldn’t there be pain-killer to ease the pain? shouldn’t medication be used to help speed up the process, which we all are familiar about?
Why, because she believed this can be done, and she has a supporting husband who share the same belief.
I don’t know whether anyone of you guys/gals out there watched any documentary about mammals delivering their baby, there are also no screaming, they don’t have pain-killer, no epidural, don’t even have mid-wife, and the baby arrived into this world without any complication, or at least rarely.
If there is God, God is unfair in this aspect, why are other mammals mother enjoying this easy baby delivery process and not us, the human, the supreme life form, the peoples who worship God. or maybe it is our own freewill that is causing this pain.
I’m my training in NLP and Hypnosis, our Mind does a lot of wonderful and sometime not so wonderful things for us. it amplified our pleasure so we have greater joy and feel more challenged to pursue our goal. sadly, the reverse is also true, our fear can also be growing exponentially and causes us to be stuck in a situation.
So it is not what happened around you that causes your enjoyment or suffering, it is how you perceived the situation to be, its your perception that is doing the trick, tricking you to take actions, or not to.
Remember, if you allow your mind to change the perception of your life, life will never be the same again! and of cause, this works both way as well. just like what Napoleon Hill said: “Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve!”